3 main pillars in undergoing relationships

3 main pillars in undergoing relationships

Peace be upon you
Okay, get on with it. This is not just a love relationship. But relations in any context. For example humans with goods and so forth. And the 3 main pillars are:
1. comfort
Comfortable is a very important thing in relationships. The relationship will lose its magical power if discomfort has arisen.
2. calmness
And the second is calm. A person will be uncomfortable if not calm and disunity will arise in a relationship.
3. pleasure
In a relationship must have a sense of pleasure. Because if you don't have it, a relationship will be boring.
Okay, you must apply the 3 pillars. Because by applying the 3 pillars you know what you need is not what you want. For example, you have a cellphone. Your mobile phone has made you comfortable, happy and calm because everything you need can be reached with the mobile phone, but you instead buy a new mobile phone, meaning you buy what you want not what you need. The 3 pillars are also a benchmark why people change. For example, why do children become naughty and often times not at home. Because they do not accept calmness, comfort and pleasure in that environment, so they seek calm, comfort and pleasure in their own way even if it is wrong. And that also applies in relationships with partners and others. The important thing is to make yourself like a garden. The park has calm, comfort and pleasure.
This is from my own argument. if there is an error apologize.
good luck
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